"Just as God is our Father, so God is also our Mother."
-Julian of Norwich
As someone who has never celebrated the holiday, because my own mother left, this truth is profound.
Don't take the Motherhood of God away from the Motherless because it seems heterodox. Don't say it's less important than the Fatherhood of God, that even if true, it's less important to emphasize, or worse, that it would be dangerous and confusing.
Because it's just as important. It's just as real.
And the confusion happens when we stuff our ears from contemplating its reality because it seems foreign to us.
Don't tell the hurting that they can't be a good judge of theology because their pain is clouding their judgment.
Because God is for the Hurt and SHe becomes the Hurt.
If theology is not for the broken, and the perspectives of the hurting and abused and the abandoned cannot help shape it
point out the areas where it lacks empathy
where it favors the blessed over the broken
then theology is for nobody.
Either Jesus came for the fringe, the outcast, the outlier, the abused,
or He came for people who didn't need Him to begin with.
God comes for the abandoned.
And becomes everything to them
that they never had.
Taking that away from someone
is the most sinister form of heresy
"For my father and my mother have forsaken me,
but the Lord will take me up."
"Can a woman forget her sucking child,
that she should have no compassion on the son of her womb?
Even these may forget,
yet I will not forget you."
"So God created human beings in his own image.
In the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them."
“You were unmindful of the Rock that bore you; you forgot the God who gave you birth.”
“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often have I desired to gather your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”