Go ahead and say, "The Bible clearly says."
But don't for one second attempt to comfort yourself with the delusion that if your beliefs come from the Bible no one is allowed to criticize those beliefs.
This is not a theocracy, this is no inquisition.
I don't doubt that you sincerely believe that the Bible clearly says such and such a doctrine. But since when did sincerely believing something mean that I don't get to call you out for the pain those beliefs cause others?